There is a simple way to get more of what you want from a woman — that so many guys overlook.
You might be so concerned with looking needy or being rejected, that you miss what activates a woman’s desire to give to you.
Women respond positively to POWER. Not force or domination, but power characterized by clarity, boldness and action.
Waiting to be invited or worthy of what you want, is not powerful!
It’s the guy who’s willing to claim what he wants, that gets what he wants!
First he claims it, then he gives voice to it.
“Hey, I want to take you to bed.”
Or…
“I want to take you out tonight and play. ”
He also steps toward what he wants in the form of ACTION.
“I lit a fire in the bedroom for us. ”
“I booked a great hotel for the weekend.”
I work with a lot of men, who DO NOT allow themselves to want, let alone, say they want something, or take action on it.
This means they don’t get what they want!
Of course, it takes time to unwind this bad habit of withholding desires…
I suggest you exercise clarity, daily, in small ways — concerning what you want.
“I’d like to get a pizza. Would that interest you?”
“I want to snuggle up and watch a movie, interested?”
I welcome your comments and experiences with this. Just respond to this email!
with love
Karen