How to Get her to Dress Sexy!
My client, Nate, recently told me that he wished his wife would make the effort to look sexy for him, as she used to when they first met. Why is this important to you? I asked him. Because it tells me that she thinks about what makes me happy. I’d heard similar comments many times […]
How important is Sex in your Relationship? (Part 2)
Here is the second part of the article, “How important is Sex in your Relationship?” If you missed the first part, it’s HERE… If you’re in a nearly sexless or sexless relationship, and you don’t fully understand why, the first thing you need to do is figure out what’s really going on. You can’t do anything about […]
How important is Sex in your Relationship? (Part 1)
This is a two-part series to help you think about the role of sex in your life… We don´t often talk about the sexual aspect of a relationship or create agreements concerning sex, before marriage, but ask anyone who got married in modern times if sex was an expectation, and they’d clearly say “yes!” And, ask anyone […]
Is your Woman Your Friend?
I have an interesting question for you: Is your lover/partner (truly) your friend? Would you choose her as a companion or confidant, if you were not a couple or ceased to be a couple? Would you want her in your life, as a person to track with, grow with — even if there were nothing between […]
Are you a One-Track mind?
Last week I wrote a piece that many of you asked me to expound on… so I have, below. If you missed it, it’s here: What You Only Want Sex Means. Now let’s look at another angle of this…. Does your feminine partner say that you have a “one track mind?” Well you just might, if…. […]
What you Only want Sex Really Means…
When your partner says, “you only care about sex,” there’s a lot more to what she’s saying that you likely realize. If your partner is like most Western women, she got the memo that boys and men only want “one thing.” My mother drove this idea into me from the time that I was 12. When […]
Do you Assume more than you Know?
The guys I coach like to inform me as to what their wives will and will not do, and they’re often wrong. They’re wrong, because much of what they think they “know” is based on assumptions, rather than a real understanding of women. What’s frustrating is that my clients don’t ask questions! They think they should have […]
Can you Really Trust Her?
You need to trust a woman to be your best with her, period. But if you’re like a lot of my clients, you’re too busy focused on your feminine partner’s need to trust you! When do you have time to ask yourself if you trust her, or to consider how you’d even measure that trust? Your needs […]
This energy could be destroying your sex life…
I’ve worked with hundreds of men who have what I call, Obsessive Sexual Energy. It’s an energy that destroys a man’s sex life if he doesn’t get hold of it. What’s crazy is that Obsessive Sexual Energy or (OSE) is not even about sex! It’s about the obsessive need for validation. Obsessive Sexual Energy seeks to feel, “I’m ok. […]
